I've always look up to all the advise and tough times U all have got me through I wanna thank you U I at this time do not know were my marriage is I do love my wife more then anything, BUT her step mom has humiliate me to destruction with her mouth,I can't take that abuse. I act like I can't here when she talks to the wife. I feel un wanted at times in my own house, stress is at a high cause of my unruly child's issues,I am getting tired of alot of different things,I stay on a positive note as much as possible but seems nothing gives,some days are better then others but I am not getting enough good days,had close friends tell me be miserable with everything or happy with nothing,I don't think my marriage is over but the feeling hole,wanted,needed,respected, appreciated,pleased,satisfied,IS NOT THERE Not sure were it went south not a clue or were it will go from here,the loneliness is what I can not take I get very insecure when I am by my self I want my wife beside me and it just isn't happening like that, do not get me wrong we love each other we both no we do but the fullness of each other isn't there,not sure if is cause 25 years being together or what,I really didn't have this feeling until I started talking to the other women for advise from a life long friend an the feeling I felt for her at that time,I also asked her why is it I have lost the flame the closeness but I still love my wife with all my heart,the empty feeling I get or have had and now it really bothers me even more knowing I have lost my drive.I been praying that god will help make the right decision.Thank an hugs to U all for the support