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Old Dec 04, 2012, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
From what you've said, I wonder, is this a pattern of behavior for him when you fight and argue? If it were an isolated event I would let it go but somehow I don't think it is.

Regardless of the reasons for your bickering and fighting, at the very least, my thought is that you do go to your friends if it's feasible, even if only to get some space and time to think. Perhaps work on these things together while you're apart and assess whether you want to get back together after this?


pattern? well the fighst always start as something really small or stupid, like we misunderstood what the other was saying

and we decided to try and make things work, if it's not better by spring, then we will go from there. i love him too much to just let go