Relationships and sexual turn-ons are certainly 2 very different things. I think it would be very hard, if not nearly impossible, to have a lasting relationship with a man who was a cross-dresser. Too many questions/issues to tackle. Wanna have kids? How persistent would the man want to be with this? If it's a full time thing, how do you explain that to kids, friends, family. That's a lot.

So, I'm not sure but I would venture to guess that the OP was referring to bedroom activity and or fantasy play. That's why I posted by related question. Just a question of sexual stimulation. Is making love to a cross dressing man or a MTF TS a nice sexual fantasy or just too oogy?

Think... you're far from home on the last day of a vacation at some beach paradise all by yourself. You just had a hot shower in your swank, plush hotel room. You're enjoying a glass of good wine, lying naked on a cool comfy bed while cooling down when in strolls Blake Lively (feel free to substitute your fav Hollywood hottie) also freshly showered and naked but with a huge hard penis and she tenderly explains how she's been watching you all week as she lies down on the bed next to you and puts a hand on your thigh. You're leaving the next day and no one will ever know what you do in that room to put an exclamation point on your vacation.

You tell me. Hot or not?