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Originally Posted by whoswho
Yeah. I kind of think it is both a "needing time" thing and a "not saying what I really mean" thing. I finally just lost it and said I can't deal with it anymore so... I guess we're not friends. Which really sucks because once upon a time he was a great friend. 
I just have to remind myself that I'm not losing much, since conversations like "Hi, how are you? That's good. I'll talk to you later" repeated over and over again doesn't really constitute a "friendship," at least not for me.
I don't understand why, when there was no big argument or betrayal involved, now he must treat me completely differently than before. Really, I don't understand why you break up with someone when you still supposedly like that person. Ugh. I give up trying to understand! |
I don't blame you. I would feel the same. It's probably best that way. I think based on the fact you can't trace this to any negative event happening, that he's not telling you something. I can't help but feeling like he was "letting you down easy" (which is the cowardly way of breaking up with someone under the guise of sparing their feelings, where really it's just avoidance).