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I don't blame you. I would feel the same. It's probably best that way. I think based on the fact you can't trace this to any negative event happening, that he's not telling you something. I can't help but feeling like he was "letting you down easy" (which is the cowardly way of breaking up with someone under the guise of sparing their feelings, where really it's just avoidance).
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Yeah, that's what I think. And I've pretty much been made out to be a complete idiot.
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I said this to a friend in college who had a romantic interest in me. I basically meant that I wanted to be friends and stay friends but I didn't want any physical aspect or romance to not be part of the equation. He didn't get it until I flipped out on him because I was pretty alone at the time and wasn't ready to have him disappear. We stayed friends.
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That's exactly what I thought: No physical or romantic stuff, but everything else would be more or less the same, except maybe not so intense or involved in each others lives. But not completely phased out, either, which is basically what happened.
Well, it's "life experience" I guess. Stupid life.
