Leed I love all of your threads and get so much from them.
Since I'm still a newbie(I will be 9mths sober on the 19th). I wanted to share something my sponsor tells me
"Stick with the winners" and
"Take what you need and leave the rest". That really stood in my head. Her and her husband both have great soberity and have guided me in the right direction. I'm lucky enough to have a very good homegroup as well. Who thankfully I can trust, they have warned me about the 13 steppers and loose talkers along the road I've traveled in AA so far.
Again thank you so much for your post. I always get something out of them