I dont know if this counts, but....

In january 2008 My old t dumped me ut of nowhere and it devastated me. I was a wreck. Then a couple months later two friends died of cancer. Then my favorite student who had been in my class for three years died unexpectedly. Then my dad got badly hurt.

I tried to get into a grief support group. I had no other support, my heart was broken, and i was non functional.
But i got turned down by the group. The leaders said my grief wasnt "big enough".
They felt it wouldnt be fair to the people in the group who had lost a family member

I guess. But i was completely devastated.My heart was broken over so many losses.