PS I am not being mean, but I find your question slightly disingenuous (sp). We all know that talking about anyone here is against the guidelines, and so, none of the posters here ever do that!

I have found a pattern in my REAL LIFE.... yes I do have one ...... where I seem to attract slightly older women, who are a little (?) controlling. They seem to adopt me and are very kind and helpful. But then it goes wrong. I do not blame them.... it is the dynamics of the relationship

Take care,
Fuzzy