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Dec 05, 2012, 10:40 AM
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Hi Raven!
You are a testament to what mothers hope of their children. I mean…to have helped them out so willingly is awesome! I have been through such a crisis with my children and it’s difficult to let go when it is clearly time for them to spread their wings. I really do understand you and how your mom feels about this idea. Make it your plan to move on as you desire to by your very own terms. Naturally your mom, or dad, will need to find new ways to adjust, which will happen in time. And the words to explain this decision will never come easily, nor will it be easier to prepare them for this transition. But you need to do as best by you, and do whatever keeps you comfortable and happy with your progress; this is very important behavior for your healthy emotional needs. I hope the best for you as you plan your move. Take your time but do plan the move by making this happen directly on your terms. I have no doubt that you are gentle in nature and that you will be a comfort to your parents no matter where you live. And it may be helpful to just record a message to them or write out your thoughts and deliver to them while in a relaxed way; such as having dinner out after a family movie, or delivering a note by special arrangements, such as a greeting card or flowers attached. Think creatively for that loving and personal touch you have.
As to the approach with therapy animals, just speak out about it. Because this is for a very beneficial purpose and you have good reasons for the aid, speak out with ease; your practitioner will understand and be happy that you did ask for this service (it kind of takes the pressure off the T as you are the first to approach with the idea).
Please keep me in mind when you need encouragement!
Tabby 
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