My frustration level has been building up to the point where I have completely lost my tollerance lately. I have looked at the possibility of my being overly sensitive & overly critical. The thing is that what is bothering me always falls under the same 4 catagories & not everything that is said.
I continually get annoyed when I am asked a question & the person answers the question to me before I can.
Along the same line, when I am trying to say something, my sentence gets finished before I can get the words out, & the words that are put into my mouth aren't even what I was saying.
Let's top this off with the fact that I sometimes ask for help. There are times when I want to get something done before I need the help, but I am told not to do what I am doing. The agrivating part is that what I am being told not to do isn't even what I am doing. Doesn't even bother to know what I am doing before telling me not to do something.
I have always hated condisending comments & put down humor.
These were issues 30+ years ago & things I refused to even tollerate at that time. They have always existed, but seem to have become a constant lately. It's not even once or twice a week, but once or twice a day. The worst part is that there is no way to escape it being that we are together 24/7. So I end up blowing up. I am so tired of reacting & blowing up only adds to my anxiety attacks as if I don't have enough anxiety issues anyway.
It makes me so mad, feeling like I am not being respected & that everything I say is being ignored. I try to find out what is causing this problem, but can never get any answer except "I donnn't know" or "whatever". The most childish answers which only make me more angry than I already am. I have used up my tollerance.
Just curious is others are dealing with similar issues,
Debbie
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