Yes, it does. There's a process you have to go through first. It's kind of like settlement-all the pieces have to come down before you can take the next step. Standing there watching helplessly as these pieces fall to the ground is really hard but those pieces were never really yours in the first place or they were already damaged and useless.
It's going to be okay. You're a catipillar in a cocoon. It's going to take time before your wings develop.
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