((((Chopin))))

wow. I read the first part of what you said, then your feelings and you are right that logically I don't know how you make the leap from one to the other (I also know I'm reading it from a safe distance unlike you where you are caught up and have all the extra voice and body moments and tone etc to fit in there and the being in the moment). But, knowing my emotional feelings I totally get it I also know it can be really hard getting from fact to feeling and that I do a miserable job of it; just sorry you are left feeling unsafe and stepped on.

Are your feelings letting you know how she stepped? or more THAT she did?