The scheduling changes would be problematic for me as well. Cancelling appointments every now and then is okay, if its becoming a habit, that's something different.

I do not understand the issue with the staff calling you. Ultimately did you decide for them to stop and they continued anyway? If so, that's really disrespectful of them.

As far as not knowing your therapist, yeah, that can be rough. Did you ask him about his therapy experiences? I mean maybe he really doesn't want to talk about them. I typically only talk about therapy in therapy, or, to some extent here. It's kinda my thing you know? It's between me and my therapist really. Maybe that's how your therapist feels about it too.

I'm certainly not saying that you shouldn't left, the scheduling thing alone would be enough to make me seriously consider it. When I say I'm going to be at my job, well, it the honorable thing to do to be there you know?