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Old Dec 06, 2012, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Angelornot View Post
it's awkward...I hate every lecture that starts with "we'll love you no matter what" and all the embarrassing questions they ask. every time they talk to me I feel like I'm on trial or something.
This ^ is something that they need to know. Open communication in a family is SO important. If you could talk to your parents about your worries about his disability and you working it would relieve a lot of your stress. I grew up in a dysfunctional family that NEVER communicated. Not good at all. Learning to communicate in your family is invaluable.

"Mom and dad, I want to talk to you both about something really important to me, but first I just want to talk about some things that happen when we talk which cause me to not want to talk to you two"
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