Yea, I know I can't skip that part - the getting to know you part. I also know what you mean about not waiting too long - as you can get this picture in your head of what the person is like, etc.

I am pretty careful - I meet people in a public place and for a short amount of time (for coffee, or tonight, I'm going out for ice cream with a guy). I always leave and make sure he leaves the parking lot first, etc. I know it's a little paranoid, but still! Can never be too careful.

I think I'm just going to see where it takes me. I did sign up and pay for 6 months (as it was a lot cheaper than one month actually) and I get the free 6 months if I don't find anyone who is a good fit. Couldn't hurt, right?

Thanks for your opinions and suggestions guys. More after my date tonight!