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Originally Posted by elliemay
I do not understand the issue with the staff calling you. Ultimately did you decide for them to stop and they continued anyway? If so, that's really disrespectful of them.
As far as not knowing your therapist, yeah, that can be rough. Did you ask him about his therapy experiences? I mean maybe he really doesn't want to talk about them. I typically only talk about therapy in therapy, or, to some extent here. It's kinda my thing you know? It's between me and my therapist really. Maybe that's how your therapist feels about it too.
I'm certainly not saying that you shouldn't left, the scheduling thing alone would be enough to make me seriously consider it. When I say I'm going to be at my job, well, it the honorable thing to do to be there you know?
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Elliemay,thanks for your comment.
Shortly after I began therapy, I realized this might be an issue for me. I asked T if he could ask his staff not to call me. His concern was making the request might make them feel uncomfortable around me. He used the expression, '"walking on eggshells". He said something like, you wouldn't want that, would you? Of course, I didn't. So I didn't press the issue. The trigger was ALWAYS there and continued to be a problem.