Along with my own problems, I have 2 kids with ADHD. 1 is older and perfectly behaved, the other is 6. She does not behave at all and has ODD to go with her ADHD.

She does not pick up after herself, EVER, she is bossy, demanding and can be a real handfull. I'm in counseling with her to work on her behavior.

In the meantime, I'm on edge lately, EDGE. As I sit here and look around there is so much stuff strowed EVERYWHERE. My house is a mess and 85% of it is HERS. I'm so tired of picking up her stuff day after day only for her to strow it out again. I'm ready to scream.

Would it be horrible if I bagged it all up and threw it in the trash? The more clutter that's around me the worse my moods are. If my house is clean I'm more relaxed and not so edgy and anxious. I love my daughter, I really do but I'm at the end of my rope here with her habits.

Any advice??