My male T wears dockers and a nice sweater or polo shirt depending upon the temperature. Usually the colors not too bold or aggressive. One time I saw him for something on his day off, outside of the office, and he was wearing jeans, a bolder shirt and mirrored sun glasses. Totally freaked me out. He seemed so much more aggressively male, not the softer safer T in the warm sweaters. So funny how something as simple as clothing choices can make such a difference in how we perceive another.