Hang onto that thought and take it to heart that it will pass. You know how you misinterpret and respond to things sometimes incorrectly or inappropriately to certain triggers? Well it seems to me he probably has a mix of his own behaviors and some of which are being triggered right now for many reasons probably none of which are from you nor are your fault. You know he must realize that his leaving the other job, moving you and everything has been his doing. He has to see what you see otherwise he's very blind and I don't know how you would have stuck around someone that way so, I'm pretty sure that's not the case. Anyway my point is, this is his response to things he may not be telling you as some of men don't always express everything like we should. We can act out rather than let it out, talk to our SOs and get it out in the open. He probably does feel bad about things that he's brought about and his negativity is very likely about that, not you. Believe me, if you've been together as long as you have been, he's stuck with you all this time, well underneath all the negativity he sees the good things you're doing and that will all come out when this does pass. He just has a hard time right now with those things he's dealing with. I'm NOT in anyway excusing him, when he's rude or if he's ever mean to you that's not right but I'm just trying to point your focus on something other than that he thinks or feels it's all your fault. I'm sure he doesn't.

Hope this helps!
*hugs*