Hey Spoilmom, I want to share some hope with you from my afternoon with my daughter. she lives here part time, and we got lunch and did some grocery shopping together. She is 18 1/2 now, and the teen years were hell. Her life's still a mess, she's trying to finish high school still. But she is a sweet sensitive lady-girl. She's grown out of a lot of the bad attitude, she is kind and smart, and so much calmer. she even just helped her little brother with his homework. i'm very proud of her.
Please keep hope, you can get throught this! and therapy is awesome if you can do it.