One of my friends is into the bdsm part. Her boyfriend struggles with it because he doesn't like to hurt her. I don't think it's abnormal, but I think it is important to think about if you want a partner who will 'play along' or if you are okay with it just being in your head.
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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
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