I don't normally have too much trouble with her going on vacation, but this time was harder. I understand her needing a vacation, and wouldn't deny her that. I just wish that it weren't right now, and I am anxious for her to get back and to reply to me. I was having a particularly hard time right before she left, and didn't write fast enough for her to reply before she left, I guess. I was hoping for her feedback on a couple of things that are going on right now, having to do with my move and planning to set up my life in a new location - jobs, school, house hunting, etc., as well as trying to find a balance between what I want and what my husband wants. I feel like I ought to be able to give up what I want, at least for now, but when I told him that I would try to, I ended up crying for two days, and I couldn't stop it.

I want to see her too, but she lives so far away that I never have been able to more than like every other month. Now I don't know when my house will sell and I'll be moving, so I don't dare schedule. Since I never did live near her and we mostly do e-therapy, that won't change much when I move. Maybe I would be able to go see her more often.

Would your T consider doing e-therapy? Not all of them will, but you never know until you ask. You might prefer to find someone you can see in person there too. Anniversary dates of all kinds can be very stressful. When do you get to see your T again? We can keep each other company.

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