Hi Again!

Just to update everyone, the child is his. He is like a little "mini - me" version of my fiance! Its weird and wonderful at the same time

Buuuut now.... The childs mother is starting to cause problems... She told my fiance that I will never be his mother... well obviously! And she wants nothing to do with me, she says that she doesnt have to acknowledge me when we are around each other, and i am the type of person who is polite enough to say hello but she wont...And she told him that she was under the impression that he was not in a relationship and i told my fiance that her obvious intention was to try get back together with him so that they could be one big happy family. My fiance said that if that was her plans, then she is very wrong to have thought that. And now i want to know... IF she had known that he was in a relationship, would she ever have come into contact with him and told him about his son in the first place???

How do i make it clear to her that i KNOW im not his mother? I just want to be a mother FIGURE to him when she is not there! I need to be in that position for my fiance cos he has told me that he needs me around when his son is there. There will be times and things that he wont know what to do about cos a woman naturally has motherly instincts... am i right? Am i just meant to go sit in my room while my fiance's son is there so that i have no interaction with him completely? Thats the impression im getting from her... and it does not work that way.

She has to come to terms with this situation just as much as i had to.... this whole thing was basically thrown at me. I was basically thrown in the deep end!? Im not going to just run away from this, im not a weak minded person.

What do you guys think of all this?

Thanks again for reading!