Like my husband, I've never seen him cry, but I think he wants to sometimes, but I don't think he'll admit that. But there have been a few times I saw it lurking, these are really rare times, I can only really think of 2 off the top of my head, in 8 years! And I just wish at that moment he would just let it happen. It's okay. But, he is definately one of those guys that learned somewhere that crying is bad or not okay.

I don't think war is because of not crying. I think there are just some people who see certain people as "not people." They see... a lesser creature than themself. How else can you explain it? They have no compasion for something that they see as insignificant, so they because all powerful, then it causes war.