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Old Dec 07, 2012, 07:55 PM
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The sequence of events sounds disturbing; I can understand how you would feel like it was your fault. You, know the old thing: "I yelled at my mother and she died the next day..."

But maybe he was having a problem with his bridge anyway. Maybe it was his dentist's fault for placing it incorrectly. Or even if he was gnashing his teeth, that was something he did. You did not "make him do it".

I know it doesn't feel so good though.

I blame myself a lot for t hings.

Carol
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