I'm sorry this is happening, especially so soon after your dear sister's passing. You're still grieving, and then he has to pull this!

Sweetie, he's being a total jerk. WHY he's doing this is everyone's guess. But I think it's time for you to move on. I know you want closure, but sometimes we just don't get it.

Figure that you are the better person, and you moved on without any drama. I'm sure HE is feeling guilty for what he did, and he's probably thinking that he SHOULD call you and explain things to you. I'm sure he feels guilty. But don't let this bother you. Be a bigger person than that and find someone who will not treat you like this. And besides, long-distance relationships often end badly - at least that's what i've discovered in reading. It seems the majority of them just don't last. Find someone in REAL life that you can trust and that DESERVES you - who will treat you with respect.

Best of luck my friend, and please take care of YOU. You need to heal, so don't jump into another relationship on the rebound. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee