I don't know... I am still trying to figure it out too. I can't change it.. I mean I can try to make it better, but I guess I still have to work on acceptance of it.

How did he come to the conclusion of fybro? Whatever it is I am really sorry you have to live with it. I always try to figure out why is this suffering coming to me, to which maybe there is no real answer. But OMG I am not going to suffer this much and not get something out of it. So even if I have to dig for something that I can take away from it, I guess it makes it easier for me to go through it.

Mindfulness of the pain.. ya still working on that one too.

I don't have a lot of answers for this one either. I am sorry you are facing this sis... Well we will get through it together at least.