Sannah, thanks for your comments.

I don't blame T. Yes, he could have handled this much differently than he did, but it really is easy for me to give this man grace. Lord knows, he's given me enough.

I do believe he has been the right help. Given my former experience with terminating T and then lying MT, it would be easy for me to write off ALL T's and say that none are trustworthy. I know differently. Without a doubt, he has made mistakes, a few of them, but, at the end of the day, he's taught me more about genuineness, forgiveness and grace than any of the others.