I wouldn't want anyone to know everything about me. My therapist included. I want her to know the ins and outs of my personality, and yeah, it would be wonderful if she had a good understanding of my brain. But she doesn't need to know about the time I cheated on my spelling test in the 2nd grade. If I thought she had that level of clarity about me, I would be horrified.

I am also fine with my therapist telling me what she wants to tell me about herself. The other day she said I could ask her anything except for how frequently she has sex with her husband (). Just her saying that was TMI. So I'm not really starved for information about my therapist!