I think it's a good question. A study showed that people are most happy when they are in their 80's. The rest of us are so busy trying to succeed, thinking happiness can be achieved through some imagined success, that we don't look inward where true happiness and fulfillment really exists.

I guess we're just going to have to wait until our 80's when we look like Hell, but don't care; we have no need for recognition or fear of rejection, and at long last we can relax into ourselves, and just "Be"

phrooot toot toot...aaaaaahhhhhhhhhh