Thank you very much for your input; I truly Do appreciate any thoughts/suggestions.

To answer the questions:
He has seen 3 different therapists basically because I insisted. He goes a while and then quits explaining it is a waste of my money--I wonder if he goes until they are knowledgeable enough to make suggestions (which he finds undesirable?).

Yes, he does work. He is quite intelligent both academically and in good ole common sense and, I think, could be one of the financially successful BPs.
BUT: he wants No responsibility (is that a BP trait sometimes, too?) so he unloads trucks at WalMart, who is not known for paying well. He talks of needing a better paying job a lot, but Never Ever looks for one...?????

Still very open to suggestions from anyone and Very , Very Appreciative of the 'enabling' comments.