I'm really into bondage. I find the thought of being tied up, unable to move and completely at the mercy of another person to be a huge turn-on. And plus, I think the whole bondage thing has to ride on a lot of trust. You are letting someone take control over you and you trust them enough not to betray you, or anything.

Being a masochist also makes the bondage thing a whole lot better for me. I especially love being burnt. It makes me feel like I'm being claimed, like I'm now someone's property to be used and abused (at my consent, of course!). I was in a relationship with this guy once, and he enjoyed burning his name into my back. I don't anything has ever turned me on so much before.

I don't think I could ever really enjoy golden showers, though. I mean, whatever floats your boat is totally cool, but I think fetishes and fantasies should only ever be between two (or sometimes more??) consenting people. All parties should be aware of what they're doing and also be completely comfortable with it.