I have faked it, usually because I wasn't in the mood but wanted to make my boyfriend happy, or I just wanted to get it over with. However, I learned that by doing that, he isn't getting the info he needs to please me, so he continues to think what he does is the right thing. One time, he was rubbing me hard and fast with his fingers, and it was chafing me, yet I held my tongue! I didn't want to hurt his feelings. You've got to communicate and tell him what you like.

I personally do need that orgasm. I like getting aroused, but I want the payoff. I've never been so highly aroused that I couldn't come. I've lost the mood before, but not gotten over-aroused. I've never heard of such a thing.