I have to agree with Honey Bee -- is there a shelter nearby? A shelter would be better than being abused! The next time he abuses you, CALL THE POLICE. Have this idiot arrested! And if his wife is part of it, maybe she can go along too!

You don't deserve to be abused - and he shouldn't be outside of a jail cell.

See about a shelter in your area. You'd be much safer! God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee