I saw that that was going to be on and made a point not to watch it. Just the preview ticked me off. I can completely understand where you are coming from Maven.
I have heard her speak before and the only thing I could concede in her point is how some want to feel needed, but there are better ways about doing this to base their self esteem. I would hope that men and women can complement each other with their strengths and weaknesses, and learn from each other. In the process, there is nothing wrong with each of us, men or women, doing anything for ourselves or for each other. Otherwise I fear she will setting us back with her notions if too many people take them to heart. I will say this, she has gotten us talking.