Aggitation is a trademark of mania....it sounds like this person needs a med evaluation, IMO.

Most of us BP's ...THAT ARE MED COMPLIANT,\...and who are receiving effective treatment shouldn't be abrasive/abusive as a general rule....and at least not for an extended period of time.......

So he may have a personality DO, or he might just be a jerk.....
don't let him use BP carte Blanche for unacceptable behaviors.

It's not fair to those of us who try really hard to behave..LOL

IMO, one of the biggest stigmas of mental illness is generated because it is one of the few types of illness that manifests in a behavior....& most ppl can't understand why somebody cann't just "control themselves"

I'm glad you cared enough to ask........