Rose, as hard as this is right now, you actually have more than your realize. We have talked about what kind of people you address with your mother and brother right? Well, remember that I also told you that "they don't know they have this problem?"
This is something "you" have learned that they do not know about.

What this means Rose is that you now know what makes "them" tick, and you have to realize that it is "you" that has to be the one to learn how to opperate around this "kind" of person. The one thing you cannot do is "challenge them" because they are going to do whatever they can to push you down and make themselves "feel better".
So, instead of "you" fighting, you have to do what they "need" which is to be "admired" but that doesn't mean you have to actually admire them.

Think about this, I have to go and take care of a customer and then I will come back and add to this.

Open Eyes