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Old Dec 09, 2012, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by MonarchX View Post
I just wanted to know ahead of time. I was doing research and some sites suggest you should disclose your bipolarism not on the first date but sooner rather than later. I may never even be in a relationship and chose to just screw around for life, but I like to have my info ahead of time in case anything happens. Otherwise I may look like some liar if the person finds it important.


meh, do you mention also your blood presure, blood sugar levels and weight on your first date?

I'd say not. You should know person's medical history before wedding... but early in the relationship? Why?

I don't think this is about meds... it's rather about how you are secure in yourself... and methinks that you subconsciously want to test your dates with this talk.
For me... I would not care if the person had issues... but I would probably not call back if they spend first date talking about meds. Not because of them being "crazy", but because IT'S BORING. And I might think... there's nothing to them but their meds.


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Not crying over something sad actually doesnt sound fixed. That would be a normal emotion or reaction. Being ok to everything regardless of whats going on might make you feel happy for a while... Untill you actually want to feel something.
this. Somebody once told me don't they trust people who never cry. I think it's good way to look at people.
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Last edited by venusss; Dec 09, 2012 at 04:27 PM.
Thanks for this!
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