Maybe it is just me .... I can't for the life of me understand why D or Charles thinks its ok to tell you that you need to exercise /lose weight/wear sexier clothes???? I mean what the Hell ??????

These are men that blow in and out of your life on no particular schedule? You obviously have more patience for there ( what I think is rude comments) comments about your weight, figure or clothing.

Your a much nicer person that I am ..

I would have told them off and removed them from my life completely.