I had actually requested the regular NP for my exam. She chose to send in the student instead of coming in herself for the whole exam.

I've had male and female providers. I like that when I say "I get cramps" the female may understand that feeling because she's had them. A guy might get it or not. However since I am once again in the market for a new doctor, I've revised my list of preferences. While I still prefer a female, I will take a male if he is better qualified to meet my list:
1) Must have good communication skills with the patient
2) Cannot take offense at an educated patient asking questions
3) Open to alternative treatments/doesn't push excessive testing

Interestingly enough when I met with a surgeon Thursday he had a student PA with him. Again, no asking if it was okay. She stood there, said nothing and looked like a deer in the headlights. This time I was okay with it since he was doing the exam.