My H doesn't seem to follow when I say that these men never met me...the only thing they know about me is what you tell them so it sounds like all you ever do is complain about what a bi&*h I am even if you don't use that word....

I told him there isn't anything that I complain to my T or friends about that I haven't said to his face (which might be why he thinks I'm a bi*&h) and that he lies to me when he says one thing to my face and something else to his group....

The only I know about your Significant Others if any or family members are what you all say on PC... so I might think if I were to meet some of your moms that she would come complete with a set of horns on her head...

so am I wrong that in order for group members to see me as a carper is because that is how my husband presents me?