no I wasn't upset because I felt like he is disloyal... he won't ever say things that bother him to my face... he will get angry at me but be perfectly fine around me and then blow up around the kids after I've left for day or whatever...

I feel like he lies to me... he tells me how much he loves me...blah..blah..blah.. but I don't trust it because he never says when he's upset or angry or unhappy or anything...

Thats part of why he goes to therapy...