I want to be able to trust him that what he says is what he means but this is a prime example of how he is not there yet... because he is not sharing how he feels with me...

I know this sounds strange to say... but if he can't tell me when he's pissed as hell at me then why should I believe him when he says he loves me. He's a Christian so I know as far as he's concerned divorce is not an option so I think he's just saying all the "right" things to my face.