RTS ... IMHO, he is deliberately trying to hurt you by telling you what others say about you in his group. If this is how HE feels then you two need to address that, but if others who dont know you are saying bad things about you it has everything to do with the way he portrays you to them. My point being , is this his way of telling you how he feels... Kinda passive agressive as there is nothing positive to gain from him sharing that information with you.. What is his reason other then to be hurtful?