RTS, I agree with Lola. There's no point in sharing that information with you unless it's to hurt you or try to tell you that HE thinks the same thing and wants you change.

I am so sick of Christmas already. Tired of the stress and . . . Tried to get some shopping done today. We don't have our tree up yet and everyone is just saying that they wish it was up, but won't do anything to help me clean up the living and get the spot ready to put it up even. Ready to just say **** it for this year, but then feel guilty about having that attitude.