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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
RTS ... IMHO, he is deliberately trying to hurt you by telling you what others say about you in his group. If this is how HE feels then you two need to address that, but if others who dont know you are saying bad things about you it has everything to do with the way he portrays you to them. My point being , is this his way of telling you how he feels... Kinda passive agressive as there is nothing positive to gain from him sharing that information with you.. What is his reason other then to be hurtful?
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Wow - aren't you jumping to conclusions? I would say he doesn't know how to share his feelings with RtS and still feel safe and accepted. It took me a long time to feel safe with T because of my family of origin. It may be hurtful but that might not be his intent. His intent may be giving her information. It's a hit and run way of doing it and it may hury but that is clumsiness and shame, not necessarily intent. Well that's how I excuse my own stupidity anyway.