I don't fake it. There is no use. It is like rewarding the wrong kind of behavior. You are only reinforcing the wrong thing. I have had the feeling of almost "O" get to that point and fade. When you have a good thing going for Christ sake DON 'T CHANGE it. Unless you are told to. For me personally if the feeling fades you can forget it but it is long gone.

Since the meds killed my sex drive, Oral and "O"'s have taken on a whole new meaning and I didn't want to hurt my H's feeling but he deserved to know that nothing he tried was going to make it happen. But sometimes it is all about the ride not the final destination. Enjoy the ride cause if you can't cum it's all your gonna get. It ain't so bad. But some times safely skipping the meds is SOOOOO worth it .