I know you're kidding around, but on a serious note, I don't think that any of the woman on here have ever MEANT to jump on you when you discuss your wife. I have seen a few people try to offer you the woman's perspective so you could, perhaps, understand your wife better. But, I know you and I see input differently. I am just hoping that you can see, sometimes, when people are trying to help by offering a differing perspective.