So, there have been no additional episodes were I've found him to have lied about stuff from his past....I've just been trying to move on from this and see if I can rebuild some trust. I do believe he lied because he could see that this woman bothered me, and I don't believe that they currently have a very active friendship. That being said, she continues to post on his Facebook, and he continues to not respond or even "like" her comments. But, every time she posts something, it reminds me that he previously lied to me about her (just about their history together and when their relationship actually ended).

This is making it very difficult for me to try to put the lies in the past and move on. When he offered to delete her from Facebook, I said "no" because I don't think it's my place to ask for this and, to be honest, I didn't want to drive her to message him privately. I just don't understand what she's getting out of posting when he appears to not be responding. If I posted and never got feedback from someone, I'd probaby stop after a fairly short period of time.

He says he think she may be a bit lonely or even a tad psycho....but I still have to wonder if he's encouragnig her in some way that I don't know about. He's offered to let me see his Hotmail messages, but I declined....I do believe that someone's messages are private but her behaviour still seems off to me....

Over the weekend she made several comments on pictures he posted months or even a year or two ago...it kind of makes me uncomfortable that she's obviously going through his old pictures...honestly, it feels like a bit of cyber stalking...but I'm hoping someone can tell me that I'm just paranoid and that, as long as he isn't really responding, her behaviour really has nothing to do with us.