First I would like to say Welcome to PC.
I know what you mean. There are times I have been in chat waiting and someone pop's in only to pop right back out. But I know for myself, there are times when I have been kicked out of chat a few times in a row. Perhaps the people I was popping in and out on thought the same thing. LOL
I know for me, I read tons of posts. Some I reply to and some I don't. It's not because I dont care or want to support the person. It is because I can not relate to their situation. I feel I have nothing to offer the person seeking advice.
I am sorry that this happened to you. Please feel free to PM me anytime if you want to talk. Your not alone.
huggles,
Jen